Do not join the drama
What do you do when you get “bad” news about some one you love?I do not know about you, but I grew up with the idea that:
If someone dies I should show my love and respect with tears.
If someone gets divorce, I should show my sympathy join the pain, the anger, the complain and the criticism
If someone gets seriously ill or has an accident, I should feel concern about the well been of that person
If someone is abused or bullied I should sympathise with the victims position and may jump as a saviour.
During years of my life my actions and reactions were guided by those beliefs and I was considered as a very good friend, sister, auntie, wife, mother, boss, and so on.
Today I am aware there are better ways to act in front of our pain and the pain of others and I would like to share this with you:
If some one dies, I know death does not exist, as we are all eternal... I may have some tears for the temporal separation but I keep myself in peace and quiet happy, knowing that the person is well. I do no try to convince any one of my believes therefore I send love and peace to every one who is in grief.If some one get divorce, I listen with love the complains and the sad comments... I do my best to dis tried their minds with cheerful thoughts and at the first opportunity I point out the power of forgiveness and the freedom it gives to every one who practice it.
If some one get serious ill or have an accident, I visualize the person healthy and happy many times a day. I give thanks for their life and for their presence in my life.
If some one is abused or bulled I dry their tears quick and I do my best to show that person how to empower their selves: Point out that the moment of power is always in the present, that no one has the power to heart us at less we allow it and finally that only some one who is in pain could heart other people, so that person need compassion instead of hate.
Now I know that if we want happiness for other people we must be happy. If we wish peace in this planet , we have to be in peace... Any thing we wish or dream for other people has to be living internally by us and the best friend, best daughter, best boss, best mother is the one who can deep her energy levels hight to be able to elevate every one who is around her.
So, let's work in our happiness, love , peace, forgiveness, prosperity , and self empower , in that way, we will influence in positive changes everyone and everything around us.
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